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Jim Kinney
jim.kinney at gmail.com
Mon Jul 15 10:14:49 EDT 2013
Ha! We caught the babysitter with a video from the bottom of the back of
the closet once after the kid was asleep. It wasn't the watching the adult
video that was the problem. It was the total disregard for "not your stuff
to paw through". She was not called back.
On Mon, Jul 15, 2013 at 8:52 AM, Tom Freeman <tfreeman at intel.digichem.net>wrote:
> Please forgive the chime in - but...
>
> +1 with an observation of sorts
>
> A parent still needs to monitor sufficiently to catch a usuable per
> centage (what ever that value is) to ensure that the conversation takes
> place. (I caught a daughter sneaking a viewing of "Flesh Gordon" from a
> copy her late mother gave me. _That_ was an awkward conversation!)
>
>
>
> On Mon, 15 Jul 2013, Jim Kinney wrote:
>
> In short: don't rely on technology as a role model stand-in for children.
>>
>> I have exactly 0 filters on the feed at my house. none. waste of time.
>> Kids
>> will find what interests them. If it's porn, you're overdue for "the talk"
>> and that one will go on for the next several years. If the adult is not
>> capable of sitting down and watching what they are and rationally
>> explaining
>> what is problematic about it, the child will begin to disregard the adult
>> as
>> an authority figure and view them as just another knee-jerker wearing
>> blinders.
>>
>> Most kids are wanting to find stuff that's not porn and other "bad stuff".
>> Most kids get embarrassed or grossed out when it accidentally crosses the
>> screen on an errant mouse click. It's far more important to have them
>> understanding that they will not be punished the occasional mistake but
>> will
>> be expected to learn from them. Teach them the "back" button in both mouse
>> and keystrokes :-)
>>
>> Ron brought up a bigger issue that can't be filtered with current tools:
>> what the kids actually say online to each other. Between 12-13 and about
>> 19-20, girls are vile, horrid creatures to other girls and boys are
>> brain-damaged monsters with illusions of invincibility. A useful tool
>> would
>> be a screen mirror with recording so the nasty things they say to each
>> other
>> can be replayed, discussed, and used as reasons why privilege A is being
>> withheld. I'm thinking of a chat mirroring tool or email copy process. It
>> will only get to be used once then they will change methods (if they are
>> smart). But that level of guidance, no matter what _they_ think, would
>> benefit them greatly learning how to relate with others.
>>
>> Besides, once the hormones kick in, they will find a way to find out about
>> it. If the default view at home is "NO! BAD!", they will look elsewhere
>> for
>> answers unless they are totally dominated by helicopter parents. Most
>> commercial porn is crap with subtle and not so subtle overtone of violence
>> against women as themes. It's a challenge to find something that can serve
>> as guidance for humans really relate in bed. And intelligent bed banging
>> is
>> far better than stupid gun banging in the street.
>>
>>
>> On Sun, Jul 14, 2013 at 9:46 PM, Ron Frazier (ALE)
>> <atllinuxenthinfo@**techstarship.com <atllinuxenthinfo at techstarship.com>>
>> wrote:
>> Hi all,
>>
>> Since I brought up OpenDNS, even though I'm a user and a fan, I
>> should point out some limitations. About 10%, as a rough
>> guestimate, of the ugly stuff will sneak through the filter.
>> The purveyers of junk bring up new sites too fast for everything
>> to be in the database. Do not assume your kids will be totally
>> prevented from getting to any and all "insert bad category"
>> stuff.
>>
>> Also, if your kid knows how to do any of the following, he / she
>> can bypass the filter: choose an alternate dns server on the pc,
>> use a proxy / anonymizer (although you can filter that
>> category), browse by ip alone without dns, start up a vpn, take
>> their laptop / smartphone to a friend's house or hotspot or step
>> parent's house. Anything that bypasses the use of the OpenDNS
>> servers or changes their public ip bypasses the filter. I have
>> wished in the past that I could tie the filter to a specific pc,
>> but OpenDNS does not provide that as far as I know.
>>
>> Internet Explorer provides some built in content filtering
>> options, which can tie into things like NetNanny (I think), but
>> I've never used it. Firefox doesn't provide any of that
>> natively that I'm aware of, but there may be plugins for it.
>>
>> I have links to a couple of Christian sites related these topics
>> I could try to dig up if anyone wants.
>>
>> Note that, even if they cannot easily access "uglyjunk.com"
>> because of OpenDNS, they can see links to it in google and bing,
>> and in the latter case, with live video coming though bing. The
>> child's pc need not ever visit "uglyjunk.com" to see some of its
>> content, albeit with smaller pictures.
>>
>> You can make things harder to bypass by putting the OpenDNS
>> servers in your router settings. Then, any pc which just uses
>> basic dhcp to get it's ip and dns will pick that up from the
>> router. But, that does not prevent the pc from querying another
>> dns server directly if it wants to. If the pc can get an ip for
>> "uglyjunk.com", it can still visit the site.
>>
>> I have heard that you can get hosts files of preconfigured
>> blacklist sites, then the computer is just directed to nowhere
>> when they try to get those sites, before even querying the dns.
>> I've never used that though.
>>
>> The service also depends on linking your public ip to your
>> account. That's why going to a hotspot bypasses the filter.
>> They'll have a different public ip which is not linked to your
>> account. Even if the pc was set to use the OpenDNS servers,
>> your personal filter settings would not be in affect. You would
>> still get phishing protection though.
>>
>> Since your public ip is subject to change periodically when your
>> cable / dsl modem resets, you need to run a small utility, which
>> I run in Windows, to link your current public ip with your
>> account and filter settings. You'll have to check on whether
>> they have a linux utility, but they probably do. When your ip
>> changes, if the utility runs, the OpenDNS servers get set to
>> respond to the new ip. If your ip setting utility doesn't run
>> for a few days, then your filters won't be in affect for a few
>> days if your ip has changed.
>>
>> I do NOT recommend running the ip setting utility on the child's
>> computer. Here's why. Let's say you did that. They go to
>> starbucks. They login, then the ip utility links STARBUCKS
>> public ip to YOUR filter account. Your child would then be
>> subject to your filters, but so would EVERYONE ELSE in
>> starbucks. That might cause some problems. This would remain
>> in effect until your child logged into another network and got
>> another public ip.
>>
>> Because ip's change, the system occasionally gets confused as to
>> which account owns which ip. This is rare, but, for example,
>> let's say there is a disruption at the isp and all the cable
>> modems get reset. You may end up with what was someone else's
>> public ip and they may end up with yours. It may take a little
>> while for the ip setting utilities to set everything straight.
>> So, the possibility does exist that they could see stuff in
>> their account logs on OpenDNS that came from you and you could
>> see theirs.
>>
>> One other slight disadvantage of the OpenDNS system is that all
>> pc's in the house with the same public ip will have the same
>> filters. You could always active a vpn or proxy on your own pc
>> though and bypass your own filter.
>>
>> Despite these limitations, I found the service extremely useful
>> and wouldn't want to be without it with a child in the house.
>> You could gang other technologies on top of this, if you wish.
>> I still have it active, even though my child has moved out, to
>> filter out rubbish that I might hit accidentally.
>>
>> This is slightly off topic to the original question, but I'd
>> consider a certain amount of monitoring of my kid's
>> communications online. Chat, email, facebook, whatever. How
>> much is up to you. I'd also set rules on who it was appropriate
>> to communicate with. Again, up to personal discretion. You can
>> get books about how to deal with these issues.
>>
>> Sincerely,
>>
>> Ron
>>
>>
>> On 7/14/2013 8:09 PM, Doug Hall wrote:
>> 27" iMac is sweet. But I agree with Ron. There's no
>> reason to buy ANYTHING if you use OpenDNS to filter
>> content. I'm very satisfied with the free service.
>> Okay, maybe paranoia is a reason. I wouldn't be
>> surprised to know that OpenDNS is releasing records
>> to the NSA. But then again, so could your current
>> ISP.
>>
>>
>> On Sun, Jul 14, 2013 at 5:03 PM, Jerald Sheets
>> <questy at gmail.com> wrote:
>> I do. It's a slamming 27" iMac. :)
>>
>> Jerald Sheets
>> Sent from my iPhone5
>>
>> On Jul 13, 2013, at 10:20 PM, Jim Kinney
>> <jim.kinney at gmail.com> wrote:
>>
>> Jerald, you're missing the entire point:
>> Upgrade _your_ machine and give the old one to
>> the young-uns. Put squid-guard on it and
>> provide a pile of bookmarks they are
>> interested in.
>>
>> :-)
>>
>> House Rule: Dad ALWAYS has the best hardware unless
>> someone else is paying for it.
>>
>>
>> On Sat, Jul 13, 2013 at 10:00 PM, Neal Rhodes
>> <neal at mnopltd.com> wrote:
>> I would think you could look for
>> off-lease "no-os" refurb units on
>> TigerDirect for maybe $100.
>>
>> On Sat, 2013-07-13 at 21:22 -0400,
>> Jerald Sheets wrote:
>>
>> Hi all.
>>
>> I've come to the point where my next generation o little ones will be
>> going online, and I'm going to build me a content filtering firewall.
>> (Ipcop)
>>
>> Thing is, I don't have any old hardware and need to get something, but
>> anyth
>> ing I would buy in a store would be overkill.
>>
>> I'm looking for something P3 or later, mid tower with one drive bay is
>> fine and 4-8G of memory.
>> Anyone have anything like that you'd like to unload?
>> Jerald Sheets
>> Sent from my iPhone5
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